Not Getting Into the College I Applied At

Well, I am bummed out because I found out I got rejected from the university I was supposed to go to. I didn't meet all the admissions requirements but I heard they basically accept anyone as long as you seem decent. I feel like crap because my dad made me feel bad. I realize it is my fault, but he makes it seem as if there's no other option. I just have mixed emotions - shame, guilt, and anger. It's a state university so I feel awfully dumb for not having got in. My only other option is a community college and my family looks down on that.